Just a few days ago I was sitting on a quiet spot on a beautiful beach in Boca Raton, FL.With my toes in the sand and the sun on my skin, I watched and listened to the waves crashing against the shore.I found myself overwhelmed.Nature grabs my attention every time, but there is something extra special about the ocean.The ocean is so vast, so powerful, and so majestic… and the craziest thing is, that all that one observes from the beach is just a small part of what the ocean is.Beneath the surface, there exist more wonderful and amazing sights than I could even begin to try and describe.
I love the ocean.In the years that my family lived in south Florida, the beach became more for me than a place to go and play or relax.The ocean took a piece of my heart; it became my place of deepest connection with the Creator… and sitting there a few days ago on that beach, not much had changed.I got to thinking about how much I love the ocean, and how God called me to Hot Springs, AR, to lead this congregation of Christ-followers.As you can imagine, God and I had a little talk.As I gazed out over a spectacular view of the horizon, I said something like, “Hey God… I love this so much!Thank You for creating this beautiful moment.And… well… You KNOW how much I love the ocean, so why did you call me to Arkansas to be a Lead Pastor?In case you haven’t noticed, Lord, there is no ocean anywhere near Hot Springs.”Before anyone gets me wrong, let me clarify that I really love Hot Springs, and have no doubt that Oaklawn is where God has called my family and me.I wasn’t complaining at all, just trying to understand the deep connection that I have with the ocean, and the passion I feel for it.And God answered me… not a loud, booming, voice but in a whisper to my heart, “I want you to love the ocean more than anyone else.”
Really?That’s the answer?What do you do with an answer like that?Is this one of those “absence makes the heart grow fonder” things?You know what I realized?Wherever I am, my love for the ocean is with me.Everywhere I go, the ocean is there because, as it took a piece of my heart, it filled up that piece with itself.And as much as I love the creation… I can love the ocean more than anyone else does… but the love the Creator has for me is deeper and wider and even more spectacular than the ocean!Realizing this makes my love for God grow into the kind of love He deserves – the kind of love where He takes more and more of my heart, and fills that place with more and more of who He is!
Come, let's shout praises to God, raise the roof for the Rock who saved us! Let's march into his presence singing praises, lifting the rafters with our hymns! And why? Because God is the best, High King over all the gods. In one hand he holds deep caves and caverns, in the other hand grasps the high mountains. He made Ocean - he owns it! His hands sculpted Earth! So come, let us worship: bow before him, on your knees before God, who made us! –Psalm 95:1-6(Msg)
May the Creator overwhelm you with His presence, and may you go deeper and deeper into all that He is. BE blessed and BE loved.
I'll not be posting any blog/note entries for a while. We're headed to our old stomping grounds of south Florida for vacation. I'm not gonna lie - I haven't been to the beach in a year and a half, and I've been REALLY missing it for... a year and a half. This next week is going to be amazing! I will do some occasional updating through Twitter, so you can follow me there if you're not already: www.twitter.com/shinypastor. Also, my Twitter updates ("tweets") are supposed to automatically update my status on Facebook, so you can connect with me there if you're not already (if you send me the "add a friend" thing before we head out): www.facebook.com/steve.nelson1
So everyone can feel like you're experiencing the week with me... here ya go!
Giving a shout out to our Youth Pastor, Christine, today! This Saturday, June 20, Christine and her band will be playing at Magic Springs amusement park at 7 PM. They are playing a 40-minute set and opening for... get this... Reliant K! No, I'm not a big Reliant K fan either, but I'm not gonna lie - this is a pretty big deal. Doors open at 6 PM; hope you guys can make it! We're all proud of ya, Christine!
By the way, in case you've never wandered over to the Oaklawn Youth & Family Life Center, here's the sign on the door to Christine's office.
Trust me when I tell you... the sign is there for a reason! If you haven't had a chance to check out some of Christine's original music, check out her MySpace page: www.myspace.com/christinedemeo
I am so proud of Shelly! She did an awesome job directing day camp this week. There were a great number of people who gave their time and energy to make camp happen - and I appreciate all of you. Kudos!
By the way, "Fireproof Your Home" can be far more than a teaching series... make it your new normal! Why not pause whatever you're doing right now and be intentional in showing the love and respect you have for those closest to you.
I want to introduce my friend, Debi, to everyone (Everyone: "Hi Debi!"). Debi is a member of the Oaklawn family. She takes part in the sermon every week, she is up on everything happening with the congregation, and she knows a number of our growing tribe my name. Here's the twist - we are in Hot Springs, AR... Debi lives in Michigan.
No, she doesn't make the long drive every week to attend worship gatherings, and no, she doesn't participate regularly in our Community Groups. Every week, Debi goes to the podcast page on our congregation's website, and listens to the weekly teaching/sermon. Debi keeps up with the happenings via the website, newsletter, and my blog. She calls Oaklawn "her church" and she calls me "her pastor" (which blesses my face off by the way!).
This week, Debi broke her hip and had to have surgery. When I got the info, I gave her a call. It didn't seem strange at all to me when she answered and I said, "Hi Debi, this is your pastor." I don't think it sounded strange at all to her either. She IS a member of this congregation of Christ-followers and I am her pastor. How cool is that?
Could this be "church" in the future? The reality is that this is "church" for more people than Debi now. People are going online and "joining churches" the way they used to turn on the TV and "partner with ministries." I, myself, listen to the weekly sermon podcasts of two of my favorite preachers. In a way, I consider myself a part of their ministries... but then my view of "church" is that there is only one anyway.
What do you think about being an "online member" of a congregation?
This week started with me on a little camping/fishing retreat with another pastor - my friend, Roy. Our camping spot was on Lake DeGray, about 20 miles outside of Hot Springs. As I drove the hills and curves of Hwy 7 out there... and listening to the 80s radio station (you heard me)... The song "I Want to Know What Love Is" by Foreigner came on. You know the chorus right? I wanna know what love is. I know you can show me. It may sound weird to some people. but those words became my prayer for the retreat. As I drove through the hills and the forest, I felt as if God was showing me what love is. When I shared deep conversation with Roy, I felt like God was showing me. Catching a bunch of fish (we actually stopped counting - be jealous!) showed me what love is. Looking up at the moon from a boat in the middle of the lake showed me what love is.
And the lake itself. Wednesday morning I was sitting on the shore, just staring at the water. I looked at the lake and knew what love is. Love is fluid - it moves. Love can be calm, still, and as smooth as glass and love can come in waves. Some waves are bigger than others. The level rises and falls, but love is always there. As beautiful as love is on the surface, there are things even more beautiful beneath the surface. Love can quench my thirst. Love can feed me. Love is a place to play... and rest. Love is new journey every morning. Even when I seem to be in a drought, and love seems to disappear, it is still present in a different form... eventually it will rain down and fill me again. Love wins!
What does the name of God mean?When do we go to heaven after we die?Will my dog go to heaven?Where is hell?Why do we worship on Sunday; isn’t the Sabbath on Saturday?What is the difference between a spirit and a soul?How can I know God’s will for my life?
These are just a few of the questions we will be addressing on Sundays this summer at Oaklawn as we Question Everything?Earlier this year, I asked our congregation and community to bring me questions.And, boy, did we receive them!Some of your questions were born out of heart-wrenching desire to know God better.Some questions were born out of confusion and pain.And, let’s face it, some of these questions were just to make me work real hard to seek the answers!It’s working.Some of these questions are really difficult… which is good.Life is full of hard questions.
Jesus’ life was full of questions.As we read His story in the Bible (found in Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John) we find time and time again that Jesus is interrupted… and asked questions.Sometimes the questions were from His friends, struggling to understand His way.Other times, the questions were from the strictly religious in an attempt to prove Jesus wasn’t who He claimed to be, or at least to make Him look bad.Many times, the questions came from men and women in the community, just trying to do day-to-day life.Even after the crucifixion and resurrection, Jesus gets involved in life’s questions.
There is a story, found in Luke 24, about two of Jesus’ disciples walking along the road, in a deep conversation about the death of Jesus that they had witnessed, and the fact that they had just found His burial tomb to be empty.You have to believe their heads were spinning with questions.Look at what happens next:
In the middle of their talk and questions, Jesus came up and walked along with them. –Luke 24:15(Msg)
They didn’t even recognize Jesus at first.So, He answered all of their questions by starting with the Creation story and walking them through the Law of Moses and the teachings of the Prophets.Then, He sat down to a meal with them, and when He broke the bread so they could share it, they realized why He had all the answers – it was Jesus!
Some wonder where the questions end and faith begins.I think faith grows stronger through questions.Actually, I don’t think a belief that has never been questioned is worth really believing in.God is certainly big enough to handle any question we may have, and I bet He loves His children to come to Him and ask questions.Just remember, in the middle of your questions, Jesus comes up and walks along with you!
Everybody come out and support Amber and Raechel... and Java! I'll be there, sending out tweets and perhaps even blogging... oh, and drinking coffee and eating gelato!
Can we redeem the word "church"? What I mean is, I think what "church" is supposed to be and be about has been significantly diminished by habit and tradition... can we exchange that for something closer to an ancient concept for a right Now world? "Church" as we know it has been reduced to sitting in seats once a week (or a couple of times a week), singing a few songs that we only sing "at church", and listening (or not) to a teaching/sermon/talk/whatever.
Yesterday, we spent the day with friends - eating, swimming, painting, jumping (there was a trampoline), playing video games (there was also a Wii), and just hanging out together. When I say the word "church", this day is what I think of.
I caught a tree frog, and once it got comfortable enough with me, it just crawled around on my hand and arm for bit. Everyone gathered around (or squealed like a little girl) as we marveled at the creation.
While much splashing was happening in the nearby pool, Shelly and Amber pulled out the canvases and began creating.
Who knew my wife was such an artist? These are pretty cool!
Amber painted this tree, and it is absolutely shiny... in a very Dr. Suess kind of way (Dr. Suess is awesome, by the way!).
And in the midst of all the fun, play, and grilled jalapenos, homemade guacamole, etc. there we even conversations - some about 80s music and some about how cute Christine and Josh are, but also some about life and the deepness of relationships... and spirituality and the even deeper reality of divine forgiveness. We shared everything.
Church is people doing life together - a family where there is always room for another member. And a part of how we do life together is to gather together one a week (or a couple of times) and sing some songs together -songs that fill up our every days - and celebrate the life we've been doing together the rest of the week... and there will be teaching and prayer. But this is not "church" - this is the church pausing to rest in the connected togetherness of God.
The recipe for instant Steve:
1 part Jerry Seinfeld.
1 part Billy Idol.
1 part Steve Irwin.
Mix well.
Saturate in espresso.
Cover with chocolate.
Add Bible.